Every new teacher in our school district receives a mentor on their last day of New Teacher Induction. When my mentor walked in, I couldn't have been happier. In the time that I spent in my school leading up to my contract, I had fostered relationships with many colleagues. However, one had grown to be incredibly invaluable.
Lisa and I have very similar teaching styles. We are super organized (sometimes to a fault) and create classroom environments that have a strong structure. Over the years we began to collaborate and became each other's support system. Our similar teaching styles allowed us to work well together quite quickly. We still joke around about how she pestered her way into getting us to be teaching partners. I don't think she could even count the number of times she said the phrase, "So when you hire Cori and make her my teaching partner…" to our Principal. Luckily for us, it was a smart move, regardless, because of the relationship we had established.
Our partnership has truly become one of give and take. I am lucky to have her as a partner AND a mentor. While there are a myriad of ways that I have learned from Lisa, I want highlight a few of the most significant ways that she has helped me.
Rigor: One of the benefits of being partner teachers is the ability to lesson plan with someone. Lisa has
been a constant reminder to keep my teaching and assessments rigorous. "Are we ensuring at the
end of a unit that our students can perform a skill or apply knowledge independently?" We plan
a day at a time and use all of the resources available to us. When it comes time to assess Lisa
pushes to make sure that our assessment doesn't just check to see if students know the content.
We need to see that our students can apply knowledge in any situation without our support.
Flexibility: Every teacher eventually learns the importance of flexibility. Lisa has been a good reminder
to reflect mid-class or mid-day and adjust. She "takes the temperature" of her room constantly
and makes judgment calls at each turn. There have been many days when she'll stop by my room
at lunch and say, "I don't think my kids will be able to handle this right now," or "I'm not sure if
today is the right day for this activity." Her verbal processing of these moments have been a way
for me to hear someone else's process and then learn from it. While completely reorganizing my
plans would have induced sheer terror before, I have become more willing to be flexible and
change things on the fly.
Priorities: This one may seem silly, but one of the most important lessons Lisa has taught me is to
remember my priorities. There are times when I need to stop and take care of myself. We talk
through "what needs to be done immediately, and what I can let go for another day." It is hard
for me to let go of control and there have been circumstances when it was absolutely necessary. I
am a workaholic for sure and I am still learning to say no to certain responsibilities. I have
absolutely needed to hear the following reminder not just once, but a few times. "At the end of
the day, school is not the absolute most important thing in life. You will not regret taking a day
off. You WILL regret not taking care of a family member when they need you." There have
been days when she has had to practically push me out the door and tell me that it's ok to need to
go and take care of my grandmother.
I wish I could do justice to tell you all of what I have learned. It is hard to put into words just quite how appreciative I am for her. But I will leave you with one of the funnier reminders that Lisa gives me. As teachers we all have those days when you think you might pull your hair out. On those days, when I walk into her room, she can see it. She smiles, chuckles at me and calmly says, "Just don't kill them!"